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You might want to keep building on the success that you are having right now! And you know that the people who are the best at what they do are always looking for another edge … another way to practice and get stronger.
You, like many men, may have had some hard knocks in the past couple of years … and now you’re trying to figure out what’s next.
You might want to stop taking your anger out on the people you love, or on strangers or on YOURSELF.
You might think that the world needs more good men.
You might want to be part of the solution to the epidemics of depression, violence, and isolation that impact men, women, and children.
This meeting’s topic was Health, but one of our men had a need to discuss something else, and we honored it. We’ll postpone the topic of Health until next time (unless another need arises).
(We try to respond to what the men in the group need, rather than some sort of arbitrary objectives. Our men need to know that we’re there when they need us. We actually had a great meeting, with all the men contributing something of worth toward this man’s topic request. We’re maturing as a group. Cool.)
This meeting’s suggested topic is Infidelity.
This has been suggested as a topic for our consideration and was recently a topic shared between our men at a recent meeting. Clearly there are some of us who need to talk this out. Lacking time to think hard on this topic and write a short essay, I provide the following interesting links* to other information:
* much of the information on the web is directed to victims of infidelity rather than a broader discussion.
Our topic will be Fathers (Father’s day is June 19th).
OK, so I started writing various bits to introduce this topic, which we’ve covered previously, trying to get a spin that did not sound too terribly much like Stefan’s previous, very eloquent piece.
Concurrently, I was researching an author of a book I recently acquired – John Lee, author of My Father’s Wedding. I came across this short article he wrote entitled Healing the Father-Son Wound. It encapsulated so much of this topic I thought I would let John’s words stand as an example of what many of us face in our relationships with our fathers (past or present).
- Consider your own father story – where has it led you?
- What claim/hold does it have on your life?
- Where would you like it to lead? How do you want your father-son story to end?
As always, looking forward to meeting with you guys.